Dating as a woman in this day and age, its honestly messed up.
Everything good has been destroyed by social media and dating apps.
If I wanted to torture my self esteem, Id just go back on another dating app for 5 minutes.
Truth is, being single isnt too bad for the most part, no playing mind games, no power trips or feeling inadequate every other minute.
Theres so much more CONTROL in our lives when we stay single.
But theres always that thought niggling in the back of our mind... whats wrong with me?
Am I not pretty enough?
Am I not hot enough?
Do I need to be skinnier?
Should I wear sexier clothing?
Perhaps Im being too superficial... surely theres more to me than just what meets the eye right?
Do I somehow intimidate men because Im too smart? Am I too opinionated? Too confident?
How do I find the real meaning behind all this?
Look, it doesnt matter how long youve been single, 6 months, 6 years or 10 years, sometimes its easier to just not give it much mental space. Am I right?
If there are any men reading this, listen. We as women arent looking for that Disney fantasy or fairytale, we just want to find someone who gets us, respects us and be able to connect with us without us having to drop our standards or change who we are.
Were not asking the world. Were just asking for a man who could support my life rather than hinder it. A man who could understand and appreciate us as women rather than someone just trying to get what they want when its convenient to them.
And no, this is NOT about romanticizing the past, this is about dealing with real issues and challenges unique to this 21st century.
Because nothing is going to change the fact that dating as a woman is a complete fools errand in this day and age of social media and dating apps.
What used to work doesnt work any more! What used to work now gets us women breadcrumbed, ghosted, gaslighted and lead down paths of situationships.
Of course we pick ourselves up, dust it all off and go and try again. But each time with less hope and less enthusiasm.
People LOVE to tell us when you stop looking, youll find it. Theres plenty more fish in the sea. Maybe you should try broaden your search read lower your standards.
Heres the thing. I would never want you settle for less than you deserve or have to change yourself for someone else.
I would never want you to compromise yourself for the sake of a lacklustre mediocre relationship.
And I know that this game isnt over.
The game is far from being over for you.
I know that because Ive had the privilege of coaching thousands of women over the last decade in finding love and inspiring a deep emotional commitment from their man.
I know because Ive had over 10 million visitors to my blog and read my articles over the last few years and Ive had tens of thousands of women through my programs. ...and I hear their success stories every single day.
I know because Ive seen what amazing changes can happen within a short amount of time once you put some attention and focus in this area of your life and adopt the right mindset and beliefs.
...Because neglecting this area of your life will never make this situation better. Where your focus goes, energy flows and results inevitably show up.
I know because Ive seen so many of our members go from having no hope of finding someone, to finding themselves in happy, loving and committed relationships after studying some of our programs and reading my articles.
It really isnt magic, its the combination of the right knowledge, understanding, skills and awareness, which together changes the whole game for you.
Weve even had a lady who went from being lonely miserable in her stagnant relationship to her literally getting married within 7 days after speaking to me just one single time. This was such an interesting story that we have a whole webinar dedicated to it and what it can teach you!
But to play this game right and for you to win this game, you have to put your attention and focus onto your love life. You cant simply ignore your love life and expect it to turn out ok.
Yes, there will be some pain along the way. But I promise the pain will melt away as you travel down this road becoming stronger mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
And of course I will be holding your hand every step along the way.
REMEMBER THE GAME IS FAR FROM OVER!
HERE IS THE SOLUTION TO THIS PROBLEM OF FINDING CONNECTING WITH A HIGH VALUE MAN IN THIS DAY AND AGE.
LISTEN CAREFULLY.
In this day and age where our attention span rivals that of goldfish, we as women need to connect with a mans soul quickly and decisively.
We need to cut through all the BS and connect with his heart of hearts, instead of playing this game of masks.
We need to start connecting with the souls of men instead of playing the game of trying to be enough.
We need to understand that there are only 2 things that matter when you meet men, emotional attraction and emotional connection. Nothing else matters.
If there was enough emotional attraction and connection, any man would drop everything to be with you. Thats not wishful thinking, thats just how it is. Its biology. Its chemistry. Its the role of oxytocin, vasopressin and dopamine.
Heres what i believe...
I believe most single men are just as confused and lonely and want to find a loving relationship but dont know how to go about it.
I believe most men live so much of their lives in masculine mode that they have no real idea of how to communicate and connect with women in general.
And as a result, they are simply responding to the energy of the woman thats in front of them.
I believe men are just as deathly afraid as women of feeling unworthy and inadequate, even if they never show it on the surface.
Because it doesnt matter who the man is, theres always other men who are stronger, faster, richer, more capable and have way more status than him.
I believe that ultimately men want to feel that spark, they want to fall in love and feel that emotional attraction as well, but most of them dont have the skills, awareness and knowledge to make it happen. So they end up resorting to whatever is easiest and most convenient.
Alright, enough said...
Let me share with you the 5 keys to truly connecting with the souls of men so that you can start off on the right foot.
Number 1 - Feel through to his fears and keep going. Be that safe place for him so that the real him shows through. Melt away his fears with your acceptance.
Number 2 - See and appreciate the masculine energy in every man, instead of seeing him as potential resources for a relationship and for you.
Number 3 - Reveal little to nothing about yourself unless it contributes to the emotional attraction and connection in that moment. ...because the true value is not in the information.
Number 4 - Be generous with your intent, your time and your energy. Remember the more value you can add, the more value comes back to you multiplied.
Number 5 - Be bold and be attuned. Test where he is at emotionally every single step along the way. Push and pull him, throw him a curve ball, and stay attuned to what he really feels. Because ultimately its NOT about you, its about the attraction and connection.
If you want to learn more about these 5 keys above and how to truly connect to the souls of men, leave me a comment below and let me know. I might put together a special report on it in the near future.
...Because Id love to help.
In the mean time, Ive put together a special report for you to read through.
I want to show you the 7 COMMON signs that a woman is perceived as low value to men and how to avoid them like the plague.
Look, heres the truth even the most degenerate, useless and pathetic men can intuitively feel when a woman is showing up as low value.
They can sense it from your body language, your words, and your actions or even inaction.
That does NOT mean you are low value, it is just about HOW you show up. These are two very different things.
Ultimately if you want to attract a high value man into your life and be able to establish attraction and connection with him, you MUST learn to show up as a high value woman.
Remember, the energy you put out to the universe comes back to you multiplied.
So use the link below to optin for this report.
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Yes this is important and top secret information and requires your email address. Of course Id never send you spam, that would be ridiculous. But if I put together any breakthrough advice designed to help you in your love life in the near future, then Id know how to share it with you.
Regardless, I am sending you love wherever you are!
Talk soon.
Rene
Founder of The Feminine Woman
P.S. By the way, if you havent joined our exclusive Facebook group for intelligent high value women, Ill make sure to add a link in the comments below! We support each other and talk about everything to do with dating, love and relationships with men...
Also inside our group, well be sharing the exact steps for you to show up as more high value feminine over other women and make men beg to commit to you.
So make sure you join us. Link below!
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