There are 3 categories of men that will approach you for a relationship as a

There are 3 categories of men that will approach you for a relationship as a lady and you must learn to relate with them differently to avoid unforeseen serving of breakfast as dinner.

One of them are those who are NOT thinking about marriage for now because marriage is not yet in their agenda even in the next 5 years.

If you know that you would like to settle down in marriage before your next 1 to 3 birthdays, listen.

You have no justifiable reason for entering into a level two relationship with a guy that does NOT have marriage in mind when you know you have marriage in mind.

Level 2 relationship speaks of commitment and you as a lady are not supposed to put your spirit, soul and body in a relationship with a guy that is putting only his body.

If you have this kind of guy in your life, relate with him at level 1 so that you will be free to relate with other guys at level 1 too,

till any of them give you a sufficient reason to get committed to him by being SPECIFIC and CLEAR enough about getting married to you, and when any of them do, please ensure you inform your other friends so that they can prepare their wedding gifts, after all what are friends for.

Know the BIG difference between friendship and marriage intended relationship dont assume it.

I love you is NOT the same thing with will you marry me?

Dont assume it.

One is a mere expression of a momentary feeling while the other is a rare specific question of a very clear intention.

And a yes answer to proposal question and a call for a deeper commitment in the relationship is what should qualify the young man for the more elevated position of a fiance among other I love you Associations.

Do not give a guy a fiance position when he has only the qualification of a friend even if he has applied for it because in real life, it is NOT any position you applied for that you will get despite your passion and desire.

There are qualifications. Dont give a permanent position to a temporary lover.

If they have ever served you breakfast before, you will not notice that the pain is not because of the breakfast.

It is because it was served as dinner, the problem is not the breakup it is the avoidable breakheart.

Every form of breakfast, breakup and breakheart is traceable to being more committed to a relationship than the guy that initiated the relationship.


Your commitment to a relationship should be directly proportional to the commitment of your guy, do not put your heart into a relationship that requires only your head.

Do not pressure your guy into getting committed to you or into getting married to you, give him the honourable position of a good friend that he is and begin to accept other good friends like him.

I know that sentiment and your fear of losing him may not allow you to do this, but knowing that you are actually helping him to be more serious with life and sincere with himself will help you to do it knowing fully well that it is also your duty to protect your good heart.

I love you is different from will you marry me?

Stop assuming it because it makes you to start expecting more commitment from a guy that is not ready for any marriage commitment and you open yourself up for emotional frustration and Confusion.

John Dibor
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